Tenth Generation

224. Ichabod GRIGGS Sr. was born on 8 March 1727 in Ashford Township, Windham County, Connecticut Colony, British Colonial America.^{16,165,211,212,213,214}
This is a close-up view of his gravestone, with the following inscription: "In Memory of Ichabod Griggs he died Dec 23 d 1764 in 28th year of his Age"

Notes from "The Saga Of Ichabod Griggs, by Bill Griggs":

"The only 'fact' about my 5G Grandfather, Ichabod Griggs, was that he died on 28 Dec 1764, according to his grave marker in the Old Cemetery in Eastford, CT. No date of birth was been found in any vital records. The book 'Genealogy Of The Griggs Family' gives a birth year of 1727, but the entry in "Genealogies of Woodstock Families" gives a birth year of 1737. Both state he was born in Ashford, CT. and died at age 28.

We did know that he married Lydia Wright on 8 Sep 1748 in Ashford, as that fact does appear in the Ashford, CT vital records.

Now the problems began. All available research shows he had at least four children - Nathan, born 2 Jun 1749; Joseph, born 1 Mar 1751; Ichabod Jr, born 4 May 1753; and Lemuel, born 25 May, 1755 - all born in Ashford, CT.

Wait a minute. Some simple math would show that, if Ichabod was born in 1737, then he was eleven years old when he married and only twelve when his wife gave birth to their firstborn. Not really plausible. If you use the 1727 birth year, then he would have been 21 at marriage and 22 when his first child was born. This works out better except his grave marker clearly states he was 28 when he died in 1764.

Let's leave that for a moment and look at his son, Ichabod Jr. He was born on 4 May 1753 and died 25 Dec 1755, according to the vital records of Ashford. His marker has not yet been located so these are the only dates we can go by.

I've always accepted that 1727 birth year date as it makes more sense. His wife, Lydia, was born 3 May 1728 which makes more sense with the 1727 date than the 1737 one.

I've been told that perhaps I had located the wrong marker at the Old Cemetery in Eastford, CT., or I had the wrong Ichabod Griggs (there are a lot of Ichabods in the Griggs family.) That is the only marker at that cemetery for an Ichabod Griggs, and it is located next to that of Lydia Griggs (1728-1801), his wife. No, it is the correct marker and it is the correct Ichabod.

This mystery of sorts went on for years until June 2008 when I was visiting my sister in Connecticut (I'm now living in Texas). I decided to go to the State Library in Hartford and make one more search for Ichabod's birth in Ashford. I didn't find it while searching the Ashford records, BUT, I came upon some estate and guardianship records for Lydia Griggs, dated 1756 and 1757.

This was a double bombshell as these records show that Lydia Griggs was claiming guardianship of her two minor sons, Ichabod and Lemuel, and that she was a widow. The guardianship papers were dated 2 Mar 1756, and the estate papers were various dates from 1755 and 1756. Further, another paper dated 8 May 1768 was found showing Abijah Griggs, a younger brother of Ichabod, claiming guardianship of Ichabod Jr., a minor.

First things first. The Ashford vital records state that Ichabod Jr. died on 25 Dec 1755. How can that be if his Mother was asking for his guardianship a year after that, and his father's brother was claiming guardianship of him as a minor in 1768?

Ichabod's marker states he died at age 28. If we accept the 1727 birth year date and add 28 to that, we come up with 1755, the year that Ashford give for the death of Ichabod Jr. Could it be that that death date was wrongly attributed to Jr. when it should have been to Senior? That would allow the 1727 birth year for Ichabod Sr. to work properly and for his wife to have been a widow in 1756. It also shows that the 1755 death year for Ichabod Jr. to be in error as guardianship papers were filed in 1756 and 1768 for him (He would have been 15 in 1768.)

The clincher came on October 2, 2008. When I stated all those dates above as being from the Ashford vital records, I was using the "original" handwritten records as seen on the microfilm obtained from the LDS Church. This is the primary source used for all of those books, genealogies, and other reports on Ichabod Griggs and his family. After each children's entry, it states, "son Ichabod by Lydia born," and then the appropriate date. The entry after the birth of Ichabod Jr. stated, "Ichabod Griggs (then four sets of quotes to mean son Ichabod by Lydia) and then the word "deceased" and the date.

I kept going back to that entry looking for clues and then I saw it. ALL of the handwriting on the page was by the same person, from the same pen, written at the same time. These handwritten records on microfilm were COPIES from another source. A phone call to the town clerk of Ashford, CT came next.

I asked that she get the original handwritten records from the vault and read me what appeared in Volume 2, page 77. When she got to the line after the birth of Ichabod Jr., she said it stated, "deceased." I asked if there was anything else on that line including quote marks. She said no. I ordered a certified copy of that page and waited patiently for it to arrive. It came on October 9th.

What a revelation! The handwriting for the various entries were different and it appeared that three types of pens were used for the six entries. Each of the children's entries stated the name, followed by "son of Ichabod Griggs born to him by Lydia his wife", then the appropriate date. This was quite different wording from the "original" handwritten records on the microfilm everyone up to that time had been using.

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Above are the entries as seen in the microfilm from the LDS Church. Check out the handwriting and the text not quoting exactly from the original. Below is the original entries from Vol. 2, page 77 of Ashford's original vital records.

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Then comes the entry under Ichabod Jr. In different handwriting, and different pen, the complete line stated, "Ichabod Griggs deceased December 25, 1755".

It appears that Ichabod Griggs Sr. died in 1755 and that death was attributed to Jr. instead of Sr. when those entries were rewritten. That only leaves one more mystery to solve, that of the death year of December 23, 1764 on Ichabod Sr's marker. Could the stone carver have made a mistake? Should the 1764 be 1755? If you go back to the beginning of this article, I said the only fact was that he died in 1764. Perhaps that is not a fact after all.

Copyright 2009 by Bill Griggs, all rights reserved"

. He died on 23 December 1755 at the age of 28 in Ashford Township, Windham County, Connecticut Colony, British Colonial America.^{16,165,211,213,214,215}

Obituary Notes: "He is the son of Joseph and Patience Parker Griggs, and the husband of Lydia Wright Griggs.

Every vital records list, genealogy charts, and other written lists, and even his grave marker, give his death date as 1764, and his son's death date as 1755. This is because the person who transcribed the original records at Ashford, transcribed them wrong.

It's a long story, but a good story, and you can read it here:
http://www.rockin50s.com/ichabod/default.htm"

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He was buried in Eastford, Windham County, Connecticut, British Colonial America.^159,162,212 in the Old Cemetery.

Ichabod GRIGGS Sr. and Lydia WRIGHT were married on 8 September 1748 in Ashford Township, Windham County, Connecticut Colony, British Colonial America.^{16,196,211,213,214} Lydia WRIGHT, daughter of Nathan WRIGHT and Dorothy PARRY, was born on 27 December 1731 in Ashford, Windham County, Connecticut Colony, British Colonial America.^{16,138,162,211,213} She died on 14 February 1814 at the age of 82 in Ashford, Windham County, CT.^{16,138,162,211,213} She was buried in Eastford, Windham County, CT.^162,212 in the Old Cemetery.

Ichabod GRIGGS Sr. and Lydia WRIGHT had the following children: